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020			_a1982141492 _q(hardcover)
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100	1		_aBrammer, John Paul, _d1991-
240	1	0	_aEssays. _kSelections.
245	1	0	_a¡Hola Papi! : _bhow to come out in a Walmart parking lot and other life lessons / _cJohn Paul Brammer.
246	3	0	_a¡Hola Papi!
246	3	0	_aHow to come out in a Walmart parking lot and other life lessons.
250			_aFirst Simon & Schuster hardcover edition.
264		1	_aNew York, NY : _bSimon & Schuster, _c2021.
300			_a212 pages ; _c22 cm.
336			_atext _btxt _2rdacontent.
337			_aunmediated _bn _2rdamedia.
338			_avolume _bnc _2rdacarrier.
505	0	0	_tHow to answer a letter, part 1 -- _tHow to lose a rabbit -- _tHow to kiss your girlfriend -- _tHow to be a real Mexican -- _tHow to come out to your boyfriend in a Walmart parking lot -- _tHow to fall in and out of love -- _tHow to chat with your childhood bully over a gay dating app -- _tHow to describe a dick -- _tHow to dress yourself in silks and linens -- _tHow to disagree with who you used to be -- _tHow to decide who to be -- _tHow to spend the night -- _tHow to see a comet in a room full of strangers -- _tHow to answer a letter, part 2.
520			_aThe popular LGBTQ advice columnist and writer presents a memoir-in-essays chronicling his journey growing up as a queer, mixed-race kid in America's heartland to becoming the "Chicano Carrie Bradshaw" of his generation.
520			_aThe first time someone called Brammer "Papi" was on the gay hookup app Grindr. At first he took this as white-guy speak for "hey, handsome." What started as a racialized moniker given to him on the hookup app soon became the inspiration for his now wildly popular advice column. Here Brammer shares his story of growing up biracial and in the closet in America's heartland, while attempting to answer some of life's toughest questions. This book is for anyone-- gay, straight, and everything in between-- who has ever taken stock of their unique place in the world. -- adapted from jacket.
600	1	0	_aBrammer, John Paul, _d1991-
650		0	_aGay men _zUnited States _vBiography _vAnecdotes.
650		0	_aAdvice columnists _zUnited States _vBiography _vAnecdotes.
650		0	_aRacially mixed people _zUnited States _vBiography _vAnecdotes.
650		0	_aHispanic Americans _vBiography _vAnecdotes.
650		0	_aGay men _zOklahoma _vBiography _vAnecdotes.
650		0	_aSexual minorities _zUnited States _vBiography _vAnecdotes.
655		7	_aAutobiographies. _2lcgft.
655		7	_aEssays. _2lcgft.
655		7	_aAnecdotes. _2lcgft.
655		7	_aHumor. _2lcgft.
655		7	_aBiographies. _2lcgft.
700	1	2	_iContainer of (work): _aBrammer, John Paul, _d1991- _tHow to answer a letter, part 1.
700	1	2	_iContainer of (work): _aBrammer, John Paul, _d1991- _tHow to lose rabbit.
700	1	2	_iContainer of (work): _aBrammer, John Paul, _d1991- _tHow to kiss your girlfriend.
700	1	2	_iContainer of (work): _aBrammer, John Paul, _d1991- _tHow to be a real Mexican.
700	1	2	_iContainer of (work): _aBrammer, John Paul, _d1991- _tHow to come out to your boyfriend in a Walmart parking lot.
700	1	2	_iContainer of (work): _aBrammer, John Paul, _d1991- _tHow to fall in and out of love.
700	1	2	_iContainer of (work): _aBrammer, John Paul, _d1991- _tHow to chat with your childhood bully over a gay dating app.
700	1	2	_iContainer of (work): _aBrammer, John Paul, _d1991- _tHow to describe a dick.
700	1	2	_iContainer of (work): _aBrammer, John Paul, _d1991- _tHow to dress yourself in silks and linens.
700	1	2	_iContainer of (work): _aBrammer, John Paul, _d1991- _tHow to disagree with who you used to be.
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