TY - BOOK AU - Jay,Meg TI - The defining decade: why your twenties matter and how to make the most of them now SN - 9780446561761 (hc) AV - BF724.5 .J39 2012 U1 - 155.6/5 23 PY - 2012/// CY - New York PB - Twelve KW - Adulthood N1 - Includes bibliographical references (p. 203-236); Preface: the defining decade -- Introduction: real time -- Work -- Identity capital -- Weak ties -- The unthought known -- My life should look better on facebook -- The customized self -- Love -- An upmarket conversation -- Picking your family -- The cohabitation effect -- On dating down -- Being in like -- The brain and the body -- Forward thinking -- Calm yourself -- Outside in -- Getting along and getting ahead -- Every body -- Do the math -- Epilogue: will things work out for me? ER -