TY - BOOK AU - Digby,Tom TI - Love and war: how militarism shapes sexuality and romance SN - 9780231168403 AV - BF692 .D54 2014 U1 - 155.3 23 PY - 2014///] CY - New York PB - Columbia University Press KW - Sex (Psychology) KW - Man-woman relationships KW - Sex differences (Psychology) KW - Heterosexuality KW - Masculinity KW - Militarism KW - Social aspects N1 - Includes bibliographical references and index; Battle of the sexes: why is heterosexual love so hard? -- Let's make a deal: the heterosexual economy falls off a cliff -- How to make a warrior: misogyny and emotional toughness in the construction of masculinity -- Keeping the battle of the sexes alive: faith and fantasy -- Can men rescue heterosexual love? More faith and fantasy -- Gender terrorism, gender sacrifice: getting beyond zero-sum heterosexuality -- The degendering of war: war loses its sex -- The demilitarizing of gender: a truce in the battle of the sexes? ER -