TY - BOOK AU - O'Rourke,Michelle TI - Befriending death: Henri Nouwen and a spirituality of dying SN - 9781570758409 (pbk.) AV - BT825 .O67 2009 U1 - 242/.4 22 PY - 2009/// CY - Maryknoll, NY PB - Orbis Books KW - Nouwen, Henri J. M. KW - Death KW - Religious aspects KW - Catholic Church N1 - Foreword / by Sue Mosteller -- Introduction -- Getting to know Henri -- The death of Maria Nouwen -- Living with Adam -- Henri's plunge into darkness -- Henri's brush with death -- His purpose -- Hallmarks of Nouwen's spirituality -- The heart of God -- Community -- Prayer and solitude -- Compassion -- Befriending death -- Claiming our belovedness -- Knowing our belovedness through prayer -- Understanding our life as mission -- Believing that our lives bear fruit -- Dying well -- Reclaiming our childhood -- Recognizing our fruitfulness -- Living our losses -- Turning our mourning into dancing -- Moving from fear to love -- Believing that we do not die alone -- Caring well -- The gift of presence -- The gift of truth -- The ministry of healing -- Sustaining the caregiver -- Caring as a community -- Care for the grieving ER -